• Drive by the residence to see if things seem okay -- is there anything suspicious going on?

• When pulling into the parking lot/neighborhood, look around to see who is hanging around and what the atmosphere seems to be.

• Note at least two (if possible) exits and entrances to parking.

• Back your car in and don't park directly in front of the home/residence.

• Listen outside the door of the home for disturbances such as screaming, yelling, or fighting.

• When knocking on the door, stand to the side, not in front of it.

• Introduce yourself clearly, letting the family know who you are and why you are there.

• Assess the person/persons you are talking with. What is their demeanor? Are they intoxicated?

• Note the location of doors in the home. Leave the door unlocked if possible.

• Scan the environment for any weapons--guns are often kept in the bedroom, knives in the kitchen.

• Note any drug paraphernalia lying about and what danger that poses to you or the children.

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