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Intervention Points: Coping with the
Effects of Sexual Abuse
- Make it clear to children their concerns are valid and that they
will be believed. Help them understand that abuse is wrong and is
never their fault.
- Allow children to say and feel positive things about the offender.
Children must understand that they do not have to conceal their feelings
to remain attached to protective, caring adults (Sheinberg & Fraenkel,
- Offer concrete support to nonoffending parents. Due to the upheaval
caused by sexual abuse, its revelation, and the investigation,
they may need special help connecting with people and agencies
that can support them.
- Connect family members to therapy. Often abused children feel
isolated; therefore group therapy with children who have had
similar experiences can be particularly effective (Osmond, 1998).
- Get additional information on this topic. Social workers in North
Carolina should attend training sponsored by the NC Division of Social
Services. MAPP-certified trainers should consider attending "Fostering
and Adopting the Child Who Has Been Sexually Abused," a four day
train-the-trainer event that teaches participants to help parents of
children facing the double trauma of sexual abuse and placement. See
page 47 of the NC Division's summer/fall 2000 training calendar for
Osmond, M., Durham, D., Leggett, A., & Keating, J.
(1998). Treating the aftermath of sexual abuse: A handbook for working
with children in care. Washington, D.C.: Child Welfare League of America.
Sheinberg, M. & Fraenkel, P. (1998). Loyalty divided:
Ambivalence haunts the victims of sexual abuse. Family Therapy Networker,
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