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       © 
        2001 Jordan Institute  
        for Families 
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      Vol. 
        7, No. 1 
        January 2002 
       
         Understand Your Feelings
      
      Child welfare workers are experienced 
        in dealing with the most horrendous 
        acts against children, and while they never lose their sensitivity to 
        these acts, chances are they do establish an internal mechanism for handling 
        their feelings. However, because workers have less experience with other 
        crimes, their feelings and reactions cannot be taken for granted. Some 
        may see crimes such as murder and drug trafficking as less upsetting than 
        child maltreatment, whereas others may have particularly negative reactions. 
        The worker's honest critique of his or her own reactions is the best strategy 
        for ensuring that negative feelings aren't unintentionally communicated 
        to the child, making it more difficult for the child to maintain a positive 
        view of the parent.  
      Because a high percentage 
        of incarcerated parents, particularly mothers, have substance abuse issues, 
        workers should also recognize and evaluate their feelings about addiction 
        and their beliefs about an addict's ability to recover.
        
         
          Source: 
          Excerpted from Wright, L. E. & Seymour, 
          C. B. (2000). Working with children and families separated by incarceration: 
          A handbook for child welfare agencies. Washington, DC: CWLA Press. 
           
      
  
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